Monday, August 01, 2005

Sexual Intercourse and After-sex Duties

I mentioned how I love sexual intercourse with my husband. It is not the only form of sexual intimacy between us, but it is one that I have no intention of abandoning. I make this point because there are many dominant women that post in forums, etc. that seem to find penetration as inconsistent with femdom marriage. I find this notion absolutely ridiculous. I am biologically tuned to enjoy sexual intercourse, and it can be such a wonderful expression of two people's love for each other. I would never imagine abandoning sex.

Not only do I enjoy sex, but I very specifically love the moment of my husband's ejaculation. Again, I think I am biologically tuned for this as well. Now this said, I very often will have intercourse with him where he is not permitted to climax -- inside me or otherwise. He knows whether or not he can complete his orgasm based on whether or not I am wearing my pinky ring that night. It is not something we discuss. I communicate my desires strictly through whether or not I wear the pinky ring.

Prior to introducing femdom into our relationship, he would roll over like dead weight after sex and be off to sleep in minutes. Now, things are quite different. If he does not climax, he is in such a state of intense arousal and submission -- subspace -- that he immediately begins kissing and licking my entire body. I very often fall asleep with his tongue dutifully worshipping my bottom as I could not possibly match is energy level and stay awake to enjoy the depths of his subspace in these instances. On nights when he does orgasm, I would run the risk of losing his submissive energy if not for the fact that he is required to perform a special and very humbling duty for me. He is made to crawl between my legs and lick every last drop of his semen from my body. I know that he enjoys it because it was my husband that initially suggested it. Now it is commonplace and I have come to enjoy it as well. Perhaps it was also a way for him to express a suppressed cuckold fantasy to me, but more on that later.

2 comments:

tim said...

Ms West,

I do enjoy Your blog particularly the descriptions of his tongue dutifully worshipping Your bottom and him crawling between Your legs and lick every last drop of his semen from Your body. Wonderful stuff....still fantasy for me. i think i am in the same place Your husband was before You took the reigns..and decided to reign him. i will continue to read Your blog and hope W/we can correspond somehow. best wishes tim

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