Saturday, October 01, 2005

Time with the In-laws

We hosted my husband's parents recently for several days in our home. As I have indicated before, we choose to keep our femdom lifestyle very private. Therefore, it was relatively difficult to live our typical day to day lives given the guests in our home.

By the time they left, I would have to think that my in-laws would at least have to consider that our marriage is, at the very least, not typical. Despite the fact that we were very restrained this week, my husband still continued to do an enormous amount of the household work soley on the basis of habit alone. The one meal that we had at home, he cooked and served.

The only escape that we had the entire time was when we retired to our bedroom. I spent more than one night penetrating him with my strap-on. His tongue danced between my legs from the minute the bedroom door was closed. It was as if we had both been in a desert deprived of water the entire time that we entertained his parents. On the final day, it occured to me that I could remind him of the strap-on session the night before by having him discreetly wear a plug for the last afternoon that the two of them were with us.

While it was a delightful visit, by the time they left, my husband and I were both exhausted. It is funny how you become comfortable with a certain set of daily routines and find yourself at ill ease when they are not present in your life. If nothing else, the visit from the in-laws served as an excellent reminder that we are both - my husband and I - happiest when he is in unhampered service to me.

1 comment:

Just Me said...

Dear Ms. Katherine,
Wife is of the opinion that sexual activity is private and the nature of our relationship is so sexually oriented W/we hide the fact that She is The Authority. When Her Mother became unable to live independently, W/we took Her to live with U/us. W/we have had to be very circumspect with how W/we act when in Mother's presence. Chores for me have been increased with many tasks that Her Mother probably assumes Wife is doing. Wife is much more tolerant of my occasional lapses when they concern other household chores, but insists that i perform those tasks Her Mother requires without fail. Twice i've been spanked recently, and i was not aware i had even acquired the responsibilities until i found myself being punished for not anticipating that i should be doing them!
Needless to say, i try to be attentive to Her Mother and anticipate Her needs as well as Wife's. It can be quite odd when Wife will get mad at Her Mother for something, and yet She expects me to remain obsequious to Her. This weekend Her Mother is going to visit with other family, so W/we will get a break. It does feel so much more natural when i am allowed to serve Her openly and for a few days, it will be a huge relief.
It seems to me that Wife should be pleased by how She rules me, and flaunt it to Her Mother, our family and friends. Of course, it is only Her decision to make, but i would wish She would begin to involve Her close family and friends. Sometimes we are punished by getting what we ask for, and this might be an example, but how will this ever become more of an acceptable lifestyle if W/we don't accept it O/ourselves?