Monday, October 10, 2005

Phone Call

He called me today.

My husband was working, but I was home. The phone rang, and when I picked it up it was the man that I met at the party this weekend. For the purpose of this blog, let's call him Jim.

Jim and I spoke for some time. It began as the sort of giddy small talk that two teenagers might have. Soon, he asked me to share a little more detail about the openness of my marriage. I told him that my husband and I have an understanding; I tell him what to do and he does it. I explained that I am the dominant spouse in our marriage, and my husband accepts and furthermore embraces his submissive role. I went on to explain that as a result of our roles, I am permitted to sleep with other men and my husband must only be intimate with me. I also told Jim that if he and I ended up sleeping together, it would be the first time that I took advantage of my freedom. I also explained, as best I could to a man unfamiliar with femdom marriages how this would benefit my husband. I told Jim that I would like to involve my husband in any affair in which we might decide to engage, and that he would need to indulge me in this requirement if he wanted to pursue me.

We talked about all of this in some detail. I am rushed right now trying to get to the gym before the crowds arrive, but I will continue to update all of you on the progress I am making.

I can't help but thinking that I have come a long way from aroundherfinger.com!

6 comments:

Bob said...
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braandpanties said...

i love your blog

braandpanties said...

i'd like to say more, the first post was almost by accident. i'm a feminized "husband." I use the quotes because i'm now the wife. it's not a kinky twisted thing, though it was a very exciting journey. it's the way we like it. in my submission my wife, now my husband, feminized me to a great extent. i always wear bra and panties and when home dress entirely femme. my submission is deep. in using female hormones, natural herbal substances first, then injectable pharmacueticals, i blossomed physically as well as psychologically. i don't know if most males could do this, but it worked for us. i have no regrets. eventually though my "husband" took a lover to satisfy her craving for a more masculine sex partner, but i've accepted that fully and believe me it is very submissifying. my husband and i still have beautiful sex, and she loves her wife passionately. it may be hard to believe, i mean some might doubt the love is real but it isn't. we would never go back to the way we were for a few years prior to adopting this lifestyle. have you considered feminizing your husband. it helps more than you could imagine, especially if your husband is prone to surrender to the feminine, even his own feminine nature in addition to yours.

mellow21 said...

Katherine,

It's getting exciting, isn't it? This sounds like a potentially good relationship with your lover clearly understanding his role. That can help with any fears that your husband may have. Having your husband participate by helping you prepare, selecting the clothes and lingerie, etc. will also be a big deal. Take it slow but good luck.

Sincerely,

Adventurer

mellow21 said...

Katherine,

It's getting exciting, isn't it? This sounds like a potentially good relationship with your lover clearly understanding his role. That can help with any fears that your husband may have. Having your husband participate by helping you prepare, selecting the clothes and lingerie, etc. will also be a big deal. Take it slow but good luck.

Sincerely,

Adventurer

River Sunday said...

Your great.
I love your blog. The concept
is one that must be. I was in
a relationship for five years
before she got religion. I am
currently searching for another
woman whom I may serve and
in the mean time I am learning
new ways of cleaning the house,
doing laundry, etc. Can't wait
for your next post.

Praise to the woman,
River