Friday, October 27, 2006

Melancholy and Femdom

There is certainly an emotional rhythm to the joy I take in controlling my husband and the joy he takes in surrendering to me. He tells me that on rainy days, he can more quickly and deeply immerse himself in subspace. This may be a reflection of the fact that I am less playful, but more sincere and noticeably more intense in my demands when the gloom of the weather affects my mood.

I think when we retreat into our minds and are less distracted by the activities that good weather affords us, we are more open to true intimacy. For my husband and I, intimacy is so easily expressed in terms of power exchange. I suppose that the silver linings around the rain clouds in our lives are easily wrapped around his neck with one end in my delicate hand.

4 comments:

oldbear said...

Hi Lady, I saw your post on FMSB! I am glad you found it.

TFantasy only, but I think being your strong attentive lover while you cuckold your hubby would be hot! Regardless of the weather, but a nice Thunderstorm adds to the deep melancholy drama of the events! OB.

Curious George said...

I simply adore your writing style. Do you teach because if you do I want to enroll.

Our situation is a bit different because we have the pitter patter of little and not so little feet to contend with. Their radar is pretty amazing. When you think they aren't paying attention you find out they are.

Rainy days bring out the 'horny' in my wife. Throw in a bolt of lighting or a few claps of thunder and she'll wear my tongue out.

Our youngest has picked up on certain aspects of the female led marriage and she clearly likes the idea of a husband who puts his wife's needs before his own, one who cleans the house, does the laundry, washes the dishes, cooks the meals.

What brought it home was her comment the other day about it being a man's job to clean the house.

There are instances my wife demonstrates to her she knows how to clean and to cook and she's not too good to do either and it's something everyone, regardless of gender, needs to be able to do, but we're both glad we have children who are well adjusted and liberated in their views of gender and work.

One of the times I became irritated at one of my children was her bending over backwards to please a man. She was even doing the lazy s.o.b's laundry. I sat her down and said her mother and I didn't raise her to be a man's maid. I pointed out how we are liberated and we believe in women's liberation. I didn't tell her what to do, but she drew her own conclusions; her boyfriend was manipulating their relationship to get her to do things he was simply too lazy to do.

I just reread Old Bear's comment for the second time. Sounds like has a bit of the bull in him (haha).

How emotionally connected are you with your lover? To me, that's the difference between vanilla and dark chocolate mocha fudge cuckolding.

oldbear said...

Hi cg, yes I do have bit of the bull in me, but I dont usually think of myself in those terms.

There are men like Saratoga and Catwomans slave who may well be bigger and stronger (and the other kind of bigger too )who are submissive. Regardless of where I sit on the continuim of male physique, my psycho-sexuality is mostly dominant. Even now with some serious health challenges in my life, I mostly only would want to do submissive things with a woman for the fetish thrill of it, and to make a woman I liked happy. If she ever knew, the depths of my desire to make my wife (MGLITW) happy would probably shock the heck out of her. But given my druthers it would not be as her slave or inferior. It would be at least as her occasional master, or as a leading equal.

BUT in daily life I usully defer to her, as she is VERY smart and level headed and down to earth and of the best moral character. To each his owm, and to HER whatevr she wants. LOL.

Lots of Bulls disrespect the subhubby or slave, unless he is a jackass I never would. We are all oriented differently, and I just happend to like the IDEA of cuckolding some schmuck who is not taking care of his nice and sexy wife. I never would, as I am faithful to MGLITW.


I agree withyou, I Love LW's writing style.

JimK said...

I love your blog because you share your inner feelings/thoughts about cuckolding. I need to read more women's honest thoughts about cuckolding their husbands (before I indulge). Suggestions anyone?