Monday, February 27, 2006

A Night Out

We went to the black-owned restaurant and club that I had mentioned in an earlier post. While we had a nice dinner, the entire evening seemed staged and awkward. It was as if we expected to walk into the building and become besieged by beautiful black men approaching us to play into some scripted scenario. It was nothing like this. Honestly, I am a little ashamed and was reluctant to even post this brief recap of the evening.

The best part of the night was going home to a wonderful massage and the pleasures of my husband's mouth on my body.


oldbear said...

Hi Katherine, while am sorry it did not workout as planned, I am sure it will eventually if that is what you choose to do. Your integrity is well reflected by the fact you posted this (for want of a better way to describe it), negative, experience.

The concept that the guys in the club would respond in accord with a certain image or mental construction is some of what I was concerned about with the "Black Bull" stereotype...or any other. Above all else the guys in the club are individuals first and foremost. Of course in time you all will find guys who will behave according to that image, it just does not apply to all African American guys, or all the time to the ones who might be interested in playing some other time.

Thanks you again for the site and your time. PAX to you Lady, and to all of you out there. OB.

ps you might find out later some of the guys in there WERE scoping you out, and will want to get with you eventually, they might even remember your first appearance!

Queen'sKnight1 said...

Dear Lady Katherine,

It sounds as though you and your husband sat together at a table, which would say to most people that your intention is just to enjoy a nice evening with each other.

If you sit by yourself at the bar while your husband sits alone watching from a secluded corner, things may well go quite differently.

Perhaps after you have been seen together in the establishment, patrons will notice that you come in and sit separately and will pick up on your intentions. Best wishes for success in your endeavors.

Queen'sKnight1 said...

Lady Katherine,

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A. "Unless she is “fully dressed to kill,” you may never know. While she is on the prowl she will typically have on an obviously “gaudy” wedding ring, or her engagement ring linked to her wedding band, and maybe another ring to draw attention to her ring. With this she will have on her RIGHT ankle an anklet. Sometimes she will make it easy and her anklet will have HW, MFM, male-female-male symbol circle arrow circle cross-circle arrow, a Q followed by a spade symbol, BBC, or any other engraving from fuck me, to I fuck, he watches. Often HW’s from small areas will list on the Internet seeking those passing through; this allows them to be discreet. Some will seek you if you live a discreet distance and travel to your town."

This site sells such jewelry:

While it isn't for sale, this site shows a different style pendent with the same theme:

Queen'sKnight1 said...

Apparently, the anklet with "BBC" stands for "Big Black C__k".

Wife of sissy said...

Hi Katherine,
Black men, like most other men are reluctant to approach a Woman that is accompanied by another man. So either have hubby sit in the corner of the dance area while you sit alone or....have a girl friend with you and make sure she does the dancing with hubby while you look around. I think your status as a "third wheel" or single will attract the bees to the honey.

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