There are many of you who read my blog, and I am pleased that there is a dedicated group that posts comments. I assure you that I enjoy these comments and take them to heart.
If there are men out there that fantasize of being cuckolded, but have never experienced it, tell me what outlets do you have for your fantasies. You can read this blog, and there are other sites that discuss the topic, but is that enough? Are there videos that are intelligently made? It is not like you can "buy" a cuckolding experience like you can a sexual and even a femdom experience. By necessity cuckolding must be done by someone with whom you are close.
Your comments are welcome.
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Lady Katherine,
Though I've experienced cuckoldry a number of times throughout my life, I now pretty much live out my fantasies by writing erotic fiction that deals with FemDom and cuckoldry, some of which can be found of Literotica.com and in Elise Sutton's Predominant e-zine from May of 05 right up to the present, not to mention my own blog. Of course, it's not the same thing. In this particular case, reality is much better than fantasy. Because of that, I'm in search of a LTR with a woman to love and to serve and to be cuckolded by. At age 55, this is much more difficult to find than it was in my thirties and forties. Still, few things can generate such a furnace of sexual heat in a submissive male than by watching his wife, or Mistress, making love to another man. This is my obsession, and it will be with me till the day I die.
Ms. West,
There are other elements to FLR's which you at one time discussed and explored publicly with your devoted fans. I'm curious what a day in your life is like with your obedient eager-to-please husband?
Katherine, I have to say that iobey echos my sentiments completely. What happened to the personal body pampering, the financial control, going shopping while he carries your purse and shopping bags, all those other intimate and wonderful elements of FLR and subordinate male devotion. The only aspect of your relationship you have mentioned of late is cuckoldry. One wonders whether this is now the sole dynamic upon which your relationship pivots or are you simply not writing about the others? If cuckoldry has become a singular obsessive focus, I worry for the health of your relationship.
A strong fine wine makes or breaks a sumptuous meal. One who consumes wine only, however, to the exclusion of all other nourishment, is risking health and life.
My problem for a long time was that I lived a second, secret life within the world of submission and cuckoldry. Despite I talked to my wife about my desires, I couldn't get her interested in it. So, I was just trying to live it out in fantasy. I was reading stories (literotica and many more places), searching for movies, chatting, etc.
I didn't realize that I was pulled in by a swirl of pornography, which threatened to destroy my mind and life. One fine day, after reading some essay's and Leopold Sacher-Masoch's "Venus if furs", I realized my mistake. I stopped living in my dream-world and started serving my wife in any way I could. Without ever expecting a reward. I realize this as a sweet torment. She knows of course why all these things happen and utilizes my submission to her from time to time. This bringes me to unbelievable heights of excitment.
Lately in bed she gets excited when I talk about her being taken by strange men. It surprised me greatly and gave my hopes a jump.
An outlet I use in the last month is my blog (http://thefemaledomination.blogspot.com/), which I started originally because of You, Katherine.
Of course we might be a little too young for the REAL thing. We want to make a couple of kids, so cuckolding would be a little dangerous for now. I think we are doing well, to keep it as a fantasy and an occasional flirt when going out. Besides, I get my kinky pleasure already by submitting in my own silent ways.
Be well!
Dear Katherine,
girlybs is probably speaking for many or most readers. But he doesn't really say that your blog is really exciting. Truth is that the sexual joy that derives from reading your blog, is probably more attractive than the idea of showing how things work out when a wise wife dominates and ultimately cuckolds her husband.
Please don't bother. This is your playground and YOU make the rules. I will be your faithful reader and I'm sure many more will stay as well, with or without posting about your last experience with Jim.
Take care!
guggler
Hunterx,
I do have a novel, The Ten Days of Submission, that was published four years ago by Pink Flamingo Publishers. The novel went out of print at the end of December and is now being reprinted by Elise Sutton in her Predominant e-zine, beginning this year with the January/February issue. She's publishing a segment in each bi-monthly issue. You can go to her website (I think Lady Katherine has a link to it) and check out the rates for subscribing to Predominant. The e-zine also has a lot of excellent articles on Female Domination, plus interviews with Dominant women, some of whom cuckold their husbands, movie reviews, and other great stuff.
Katherine
I greatly enjoy your blog. My wife and I continue to work on our own femdom relationship. Cuckolding me is one of her favorite fantasies as it is mine. We have been livng a femdom lifestyle on and off for about a year now. I think in time we will try cuckoldry but for now the fantasy and the talk about it is enough for me. I believe that this new lifestyle has been a great benefit to our marriage especially during the periods when we are deep into the lifestyle. Even during the times when we are not seriously paracticing femdom, its imprint still guides us. Our marriage is happier for it. Like many who comment here, cuckoldry is a fixation of mine, however, I find myself wanting to lay a strong foundation in this lifestyle before pressing on.
Dear Lady katherine, thank you for a grat question. To all you guys who responded thanks for some great and informative posts.
Dear Lady, I am different than the rest of these guys in that I do not want to be cuckolded, and at least where I am at now I would not tolerate it. Thanks to your blog and your adoring hubby and some great people like Wayne I now see the merit of it for some, just I aint one of them.
What I have done is be the sex-toy of the Lady who is cheating. It happened once when I was young. In the sense that she used me to get hot sex and taunt her soon to be ex i suppose I was used just like the man I was cucking.
It was not the Dombull slaps the hubby around thing. But while we were going at it she definitely was my **tch. I had tow cases where I would not let intense flirting or makeouts go farther because the women were married.
All the above is totally HOT for me.
i find that Wayne's description of such types of events is pretty darn good! I can just about see the foxy ways of his cruel vixens and me having my way with them.
Now that I am married I would never do it with another Lady, but if I were single I might cuck some guy if I were convinced he craved it, it wouldnt hurt his marriage, or do permanent damge to him or her.
So to answer your question directly Lady K, if a story the quality of Waynes was illustrated with good photos I could relive to a large extent what happened a quarter of century ago!
But I am guessing since the negative emotions and the finality of it accrue to the cuck hubby they cant quite get the same bite from a story.
But if they never do the actual they wont know what they are missing.
Let the now defunct Marias Diary dot com be a warning, once a sexually intense lady starts cucking there is no turning back.
Those of us who read it and corresponded however little with Maria know what can happen to hapless cucks who crave humiliation!!
Thanks for a GREAT question Lady Katherine, I have now rethought and learned something about my past I never analyzed before!
I agree this is a great question. I confessed my cuckolding fantasies to my wife two years ago. She refused to get involved in cuckolding because she believes I couldn't handle the jealousy based on an incident that happened when we were in college 25 years ago. In the past year, I have talked about her having sex with other guys when I am inside her. She says she doesn't understand it, but for while she would reciprocate with comments of her own. This was great and I hoped it would continue or that we could build on it, but it is starting to fizzle out. It was great while it was happening, but my wife just isn't into it. I could have continued this way forever.
My 2nd favorite outlet is to watch amatuer (real amatuer) movies where the guy is filming his wife with another guy(s). I try to imagine myself being him and usually that does it for me. I search the news groups for people who post these movies and have collected quite a bit of them.
Since the end of my marriage till now (some five years) its taken me to understand what I was wanting from the relationship, and equally what my wife was very subtly hinting since her early twenties. At the time I could not bring myself to allow full expression of my wifes growing sexual desires, only intellectually at a distance could the thought of letting her sleep with other men be entertained. The world of cuckoldry seemed impossible. So glad to find a site such as these to help explain the some times very obvious fantasies I`ve been experiencing. I`m 32 now and hope that in my next relationship I will be able to slowly cultivate these fantasies more openly. Thank you to all, nice to know that next time I`m not alone in this seemingly most common desire...To be cuckolded, just for me! Grant
Since the end of my marriage till now (some five years) its taken me to understand what I was wanting from the relationship, and equally what my wife was very subtly hinting since her early twenties. At the time I could not bring myself to allow full expression of my wifes growing sexual desires, only intellectually at a distance could the thought of letting her sleep with other men be entertained. The world of cuckoldry seemed impossible. So glad to find a site such as these to help explain the some times very obvious fantasies I`ve been experiencing. I`m 32 now and hope that in my next relationship I will be able to slowly cultivate these fantasies more openly. Thank you to all, nice to know that next time I`m not alone in this seemingly most common desire...To be cuckolded, just for me! Grant
Since the end of my marriage till now (some five years) its taken me to understand what I was wanting from the relationship, and equally what my wife was very subtly hinting since her early twenties. At the time I could not bring myself to allow full expression of my wifes growing sexual desires, only intellectually at a distance could the thought of letting her sleep with other men be entertained. The world of cuckoldry seemed impossible. So glad to find a site such as these to help explain the some times very obvious fantasies I`ve been experiencing. I`m 32 now and hope that in my next relationship I will be able to slowly cultivate these fantasies more openly. Thank you to all, nice to know that next time I`m not alone in this seemingly most common desire...To be cuckolded, just for me! Grant
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