Tallchisub raises a very good point in his post to my last comment. Does the fantasy of the black bull perpetuate a rascist stereotype?
I find myself becoming sexually excited by the idea of being with a black man. Is there a racist origin to my fantasy? My husband, like many submissive men with an interest in cuckolding, has very special interest in being cuckolded by a black man. Is he a racist? Is it a reflection of "white social guilt" on his part for the crimes that society has perpetuated on the black race? Does he now want to submit to humiliation by a black man to repent for this history? Is my own interest a function of the same? Is my own perception (shared by my husband) of a black man's physical superiority in sexual matters a rascist stereotype?
Do most of my submissive readers imagine white or black bulls when considering cuckold fantasies? Please comment.
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Speaking as a big black cuckold man I don't think the issue of race in sexual relations like this fits the normal race analysis mould. Your fantasy is what your fantasy is, and if you can and do enjoy it, and it hurts no one, then more power to you. My Mistress has fucked about 20 or so other guys in the 11 years we have been together. It so happens that none of them has been black. She has seen a black guy with a HUGE dick that She did want to fuck, but was not able to arrange it. One of her bulls was asian. But the choice is Hers, and I don't think it bears analysing - She's free to cuckold me with whoever She chooses without having to justify Herself on the grounds of race. In my mind the same rules apply to you - enjoy yourself, be careful and don't hurt others (unless they are your submissive!) beyond that you are free to do whatever colour you please.
Dear Lady Katherine,
A very interesting question! First, you may want to check out Mistress Jenna's blog at www.submissivehotwife.blogspot.com.Mistress Jenna is extremely dominant over her white submissive husband, Nick, while at the same time being very submissive to Master Jamal, a large, black, dominant male with an erection that's ten inches long and seven inches in diameter. The blot gives some insight into what a relationship with a black, well-endowed bull might be like. I agree with a lot of what pd, Richard, and sub hubbie had to say. I don't know if having an affair with a black bull would perpetuate a rascist stereotype, but it would definitely fulfill a sexual fantasy that has "taboo" written all over it. The "taboo" aspect of it has been in existence for the last two-to-three hundred years, and is still in affect today in many parts of the country. This can certainly add to the sexual rush of such an affair. I should also point out that there seems to a large number of black bulls who are more than eager to help a white married woman cuckold her husband. Many black bulls get off on doing this, as well as sexually dominating the husband, if the wife is into that. The sexual excitement for a white submissive male comes from not only knowing (or seeing)that his wife is having sex with another man, but that it's a black man who is so well-endowed that the husband can never hope to be able to complete with him. It humiliates the husband to the very core of his being, while also exciting him in ways that are difficult to understand. Also, if the husband is made to perform clean-up duties in front of the black bull, it adds to his humiliation and submissiveness in a way that is stronger and far more powerful in scope than cleaning up after a white bull. There is an old saying that once a white woman has had a black man for sex that she'll never be satisfied again with just her husband. This is probably a myth, but then again there are married white woman who swear by it. The white submissive husband gives the woman emotional and financial security, while the black bull gives her the sex of a lifetime!! This is something that will cause a submissive white male to feel more like a slave (a reversal of what took place hundreds of years ago) than if his wife had sex with another white male, or Asian male, or Native American Indian. There's also the strong likelihood that when a Dominant white married woman takes a black bull as her lover, that the husband may very well find himself on his knees, performing oral sex on the bull. Black bulls usually push for this in a cuckolded relationship in which the wife is Dominant. It adds to their sense of dominance and superiority over the white husband. To Katherine's husband, be careful what you wish for! Black bulls are known for ejaculating copious amounts of semen into white women, not once but several times during the course of an evening, perhaps in an unconscious attempt to impregnate them. The clean-up duties might be far more than you bargained for :-))
To pd and Richard,
Good going. Let it rip! If certain people think that this blog is fake, then please go somewhere else. There are plenty of other websites and blogs for you to read. It's as simple as that. When readers occasionally write me to say just how much my short stories suck, I tell them not to read them. Period. End of story. It's the same with this blog. A lot of us enjoy it and want Katherine to continue, so please leave us alone!!! Is that so hard to understand, or do we have to draw you a map?
Dear Katherine,
In my younger times (not that I am old now) I've read countless stories where white wifes were taken by black brothers who could hardly say anything than "moan". Well, this might be a relict of the past.
For me, as a Greek with a Hungarian wife, there is no such background. I see the idea of interracial cuckolding simple in the beauty of the act. Imagine the contrast of the skin while they embrace. I want to look at my wife's lips locked around his black cock. I want to see it invading her like I've never been able to.
It's just much nicer to imagine it this way. Well, for us it's yet just bedroom-talk, but we are proceeding.
be well,
guggler
have always loved your journal. love reading your updates.
i tried to post a comment on here but it apparently was too long. so... i posted it on my journal, if any are interested in reading it. my journal is at submissivehotwife@blogspot.com
To everyone,
Jenna, or Mistress Jenna, wrote a very interesting and throught-provoking and extremely long comment to Lady Katherine's compelling question about "rascist sterotypes" on her new blog. Check it out by clicking on her name. She has actually been living the experience that Lady Katherine is writing about.
Hello everyone, once again thanks for allthe great ideas and perspectives. To add mine, I do not think that getting excited by or engaging in black +white cuckolding is racist. The desire for or thrill from BIW may arise from some preconceived notion about black men's sexual prowess or lie in some feeling that is safer to be cucked by someone the ladyis less likely to marry. Peopel ought not to be blamed fo their feelings and desires. What might be cgood is to encourage them to think about why the feeling s are the way they are, and what consequences those actions may have.
everyone who is posting here and even most of the lurkers would probably agree with my opinion that the couple who engage in BIW have the right to do as they please, and "f" those who do not like it. Most of the people here probably are more open, honest, and understanding of racial issues in the US thatn the minstream average american.
Where problem may arise is when the mythical average person hears about cuckolding lifestyle events and has a negative reaction. At least at first, most people would probably disapprove of cuckolding. Many would be threatened, especially by the extreme form practised by Jenna, her hubby, and Jamal(sic?).
The general public may asribe whatever negative feelings theyhave abi=out cuck issues to the fact that one of the parties is black, or focus on that one narrow behavior nd act like that is typical of maost blacks. Tht is when we have a problem as a society. Such negative stereotypes about aminority group will lead to racism in one form or another...........tbc
I do not think so. With my husbands permission, I was trained to please black men by a black bull. I did not do my first black man becasue of race. My husband is very small, I had had large men, and the black guy I did first was large. Not a matter of race but size. I've been with over 50 black men in the last 4 years and find them to be bigger, harder and more willing to please a woman than white men. After being with 4 black men, I decided to partner with a black bull to learn the ways black men really like to be plased. It helped greatly. I can pleae a black man in every way and he pleasures me in return. Racist? No. Just good sex. I've been pimped out by my current bull on a couple of occastions, once to a bachelors party the others to a private birthday party. While he did split the money with me the main reason I did it was for the great sex. Black men just know how to push the right buttons when having sex. They know how to pleasure a woman and at the same time make her feel special and used. As far as sex goes, I am black owned, period. My husband is a cuckold in permanent chastity, with no orgasm in 3 years and hasn't had me in 4 years. He does get to clean me and my bull though and I've never met a white man that would allow himself to be cleaned by another man. My black lovers do allow it, and that is the extent of my husbands sex. And it has nothing to do with race. Just great sex.
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