Monday, October 17, 2005

My Husband's Request

My husband has requested that I not share the details of my upcoming date with Jim on this blog. He claims that it is too intimate an experience to be shared in this format. I have not yet decided how I feel about this request. My husband asks so little of me that I am inclined to honor his wishes as they relate to this matter. I am only making you all aware of this now so that your expectations might be tempered in advance.

Feel free to comment on this issue because as of now I remain undecided, and I could possibly be swayed by feedback from this community.

3 comments:

Just Me said...

Ma'am,
Your right to extend to Your husband an expectation of privacy in this matter is paramount. As previous comments indicate, we readers will be disappointed. As it is Your authority that is being exercised, we who enjoy LFA are getting a taste of the medicine we desire - albeit thru cyberspace.
Be sure to know that my heart and hopes are for You, Your husband, and Jim to experience the exquisite pleasure that is every Woman's right. It would be my expectation that the quality of Your dominance over Your husband will be raised to new heights, and that he may soon apologize to You for even making this request.
After all, as can be attested to by so many of Your dedicated readers, Your husband is one lucky man who gets to live what most of the rest of us only dream about.

Jamie said...

Katherine - I echo the sentiments expressed above about what a wonderful thing you are creating in your blog. It's great to see a couple exploring this life style with all the hesitancy, fits, and starts that accompany any venture into the unknown. And yes, I am among those who envy your husband beyond words.

You two clearly have such a strong relationship that you can do this together, which makes it a cooperative venture.

Mistress Taboo may be "right" in some philosophical sense when she says that your desire should be the determining factor in whether or not you share your experience with others. But I think you have correctly reasoned that what you have here is a *relationship* between two people, both of whom are in a particular "place" emotionally, at any given time. You may decide that you want yourself, or your husband to get to a different "place" and it would make sense to work towards that if you did. But I don't think it makes sense just to assert that you (or your husband) are there.

Bravo to you for knowing where you and your husband are, and exploring from there.

Best of luck, and thanks for a great blog.

john said...

Just makes me sad that I'm not collared property - because I do know my place!