The purpose of this blog is to share my very deeply held views on the subject of wife-led households. A wife-led, or female-led, houseold is one where husbands submit to the loving female authority of their wives. In creating this blog, I feel like I stand on the shoulders of giants. Elise Sutton, Emily Addison and Lady Misato have all made great contributions to thinking in this space. I hope my own ideas can carry on in the thoughtful tradition of these women.
The purpose of this blog is to share my very deeply held views on the subject of wife-led households. A wife-led, or female-led, houseold is one where husbands submit to the loving female authority of their wives. In creating this blog, I feel like I stand on the shoulders of giants. Elise Sutton, Emily Addison and Lady Misato have all made great contributions to thinking in this space. I hope my own ideas can carry on in the thoughtful tradition of these women.
Friday, February 03, 2006
Wonderful Dialogue and Some Context
I want you all to know that my husband and I have been enjoying our marriage in recent weeks in ways that I know we never could have done before the AHF dynamic began. The acceleration of that dynamic via the cuckolding experience has opened new doors into each others emotions and we are, with no doubt, closer than ever.
Last night he knelt in front of me worshipfully as he often does. I stroked my fingers through his hair and felt for maybe the first time that I was understanding him completely. His submission to me is his heart screaming a love poem to the woman he adores.
We have talked a little more about eventually re-initiating cuckolding. One of the suggestions that was made in a reader posts was to choose a man who might have less similarities to my husband than did Jim... perhaps a man of another race. This interests me greatly.
Lady Katherine,
ReplyDeleteA man of another race? That's interesting to us as well :-))
I have my man dress as a sissy
ReplyDeleteMs. Jan,
ReplyDeleteAre you referring to your husband/submissive, or to the man that you cuckold your husband with?
Lady Katherine--
ReplyDeleteWhy select race as the key characteristic of a man who will be different from your husband? In my experience class, education, personal interests, physique and personality are at least as important markers of difference.
Let me explain. I am the male half of an interracial couple. Through my wife I've gotten an bit of an insiders access to folks from a different race. In my experience class counts far more than race.
My concern about the stereotypical black "bull," white "hot wife" and husband "wimp" cuckold scenario is that it reenforces a very old fashioned set of racial stereotypes. I don't particularly relish our son having to navigate his way through such stereotypes as he grows up.
Sorry for being so preachy, but I know that you are acutely sensitive to the ethical implications of your journey.
Lady Katherine,
ReplyDeleteYour blog is enthralling, and i appreciate the honest questions You raise. It seems to me that the man You choose in the future will be of Your desire, whether or not he is similar to Your husband or Jim. Whom ever You are comfortable with, whether a different race or class, will be the appropriate lucky man. You have the world (and Your husband) at your feet, having established Your dominance and authority which now can never be questioned. Do what You want, and enjoy. Your husband wants You to, You want to, and we readers applaud You and wait hungrily for any details You care to share!
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